I find it very very easy to date. I don’t think I am one of the best looking of woman - not by a long way - but I enjoy conversation and suppose I have mastered the flirting and if I am honest with myself I enjoy it!! I like meeting new people, i enjoy the flirty back and forth.
But what happens is I feel like I have all these options. For instance last week I had three dates. All great, all wanted to meet again. But now I’m also now chatting to two new people!! This has been this way for months.
I went to settle down and I am aware that it won’t always be like this. I feel like I’m almost addicted to dating and always think but the next person might tick another box so why not just see... I don’t want this! I want to just settle down. Do you have to make a conscious decision to settle? I always thought one day someone will make me see I don’t want to date anyone else. But that never happens, I’m too curious about the next date to think about the last one, even if it was good. Do you have to make an effort to find someone who sticks? Shouldn’t it just happen?