Should i tell her?

[Zoombini]

My best mates new boyfriend seems to be 'lovebombing' her and i've recently found out he is keeping his ex around as a back up. And probably others too that i don't of.

I would take that to mean that he is not as invested in their relationship as he leads her to believe. Would you?
So the real question is, do i tell her? And how?

I don't want her to get hurt but i also don't want her to think i'm jealous or anything else she might think.
I would never tell her to end things, that's up to her but would you tell her what you think/know so that she can figure things out for herself?

TIA Ladies

How do you know?

Either I'm going crazy or I swear there was a post earlier this evening where someone was claiming they thought they were being love bombed and that the man was keeping their ex around as back up..coincidence!!

I have mutual friends with the new boyfriend and the ex. And the rest i have worked out from the things she tells me

Does your friend.... Work in a pub?

Let me guess... she's only been official with him for two weeks and is a bit thread post happy herself?
Nice try OP. 😂😂

No she doesn't work in a pub. They've been together for about 4 months

The split personalities continue!!

Please seek help, you need it.

I am seeking help. That's why i'm here lol.

She means professional help, OP

Why?