Outed a cheater now I'm getting the backlash

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I've been dating what I believed to be a really a nice single guy for 6 months.
We went out on dates hes stayed over mine and vice versa.

Last week just by chance I was talking to someone who knew him and they told me he had a girlfriend who he'd been with for 2 years I asked for more details on this woman looked her up on fb, because I've been cheated on in the past I thought they she would want to know, so I explained to her what had happend and that I was unaware they were together, apologised and left it at that.
She came back at me being very nasty calling me names and that their relationship was too good for anyone to come along and destroy it.

Again this left me quite shocked, as I'm still feeling very hurt and upset at finding out the man I was with had a girlfriend.
She has now got my phone number, I'm assuming from him?! and has been sending me message after message telling me what a trashy woman I must be to try and break them up.

I just don't get it why stay when you know your partner is cheating, then bash the ow?

I think everyone must know by now, but I don't think or know if either of them care tbh.

Yes they are still in contact. I hadn't really seen her for a while and we were just sat chatting and she asked if I was seeing anyone, so I showed her a picture of us and the colour just drained from her face.

Its sickening to think that it could have gone on longer if I hadn't seen her. We had only just become exclusive so nobody even knew we were together.

It happened to a friend of mine. 18 months they were together. He spent a lot of time with her and her daughter. Shit only came to light when gage fell pregnant. He had a fiancé and she's never seen him since.

That's awful, how on earth do men get away with doing it?

My ex left to be with the ow and it totally destroyed me, which is why I told this woman because what hurt the most is other people knew and didn't say a word. They would sit in my home eat my food laugh and joke with me then go on a night out with ex and the ow whilst I sat at home.

I would never knowingly put another woman through that type of hell, people laughing and talking behind her back.