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First meeting with ex

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AbbieMae · 19/09/2019 20:34

So i posted a few days ago about how my fiance had left me last month after being together for 2 years. Id been working away for the last 10 weeks and hadnt seen each other and only really had limited contact due to schedules and things. He said he had fallen out of love with me. Last week he said he didnt think we should meet up at all anytime soon as although he didnt want to lose me he didnt think seeing me would help him right now. Anyway, i got back last week and we met today for the first time since june. We met for around 3 hours. Everything seemed so normal and natural, there was no awkward silences and he made sure to keep the conversation flowing. He did at one point seem to get a little down and rub his eyes and stare off in to space for a few seconds. I asked if he was ok and he recomposed himself said yes and carried on talking. So my question is... does it seem possible that he just distanced himself due to his anxiety and he does still feel something for me and we can work through things?

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Newday1 · 19/09/2019 21:13

No, please don't low this chump to give you false hope, excuses and justification for his bad behaviour. Reading this I'm so sorry but he's keeping you on the side.
You need to completely cut contact, grieve and find someone who deserves you x

PutyourtoponTrevor · 19/09/2019 21:16

Nah, I wouldn't bother

lexiepuppy · 20/09/2019 00:05

Love yourself more and provide your own happiness. He doesn't know his arse from his elbow and you cannot force him to love you.
Find someone who does love you.
Luke Marilyn Monroe said, Bad things fall apart so that good things can come together.Flowers

lexiepuppy · 20/09/2019 00:06

Like not Luke.

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