Advice?

[Jasmine1002]

My partner used to be door security on a strip club and I was never a fan of it as I dont understand them plus I just dont like it, but never stopped him working there as it paid our Bill's. I made it clear to him that I didn't like any of the girls there and I found it uncomfortable knowing he was going to work and seeing them in their underwear etc.. i have zero body confidence, was working on it. He left there and got a new job and I've just found out that he went back to that same strip club and paid for dances off the girls. He spent a lot that night too. He isnt aware that I have found this out but I know what he got up to on that night. Should I confront him and talk to him about it or just leave it?

i would talk to him definitely.

I'd speak with him, if it was the other way around he'd probably be on the war path.

I dunno how to approach it, if I speak to him about some things he gets very angry.

So he spends money on strippers, and gets very angry when you speak to him about certain things.

And you say you have low body confidence - why is that, if you don't mind me asking?

Also: can you say why you're with him? Because typically it's a very bad idea to have a relationship with a person who gets very angry with you.

Just end it. Like he knew how you felt about stuff like that and still went back for dances. Every club is so different in what's okay and what's not that you'll have it in the back of your mind that there might of been more or that he was drooling over them for months and per mediated doing this I imagine which is just grimm and disrespectful to you.

He denied it. Shock. I have low body confidence as I'm constantly changing in my weight, its covered in Mark's etc have been told by close family that I'm 'fat'. He hates confrontation and I was always thinking about stuff before when he worked there even when I didn't have to.