I recently got talking to a bloke online. He seems polite and friendly and he said I am a lovely person and he loves talking with me. However he has a girlfriend but they have not been dating for long. He says he has one or two misgivings about the relationship but he is still with her. We have chatted about 4 times and each time he says he loves chatting with me and that he could chat with me for hours and that I am a top person etc. He says he thinks of me as a very good friend. Should he really be saying all this to me when he has a girlfriend? He has not been online for 10 days and I miss our chats. Surely if he liked chatting with me as much as he says then he would have been online sooner to see if i was around for chatting or at least send me a message. If he is not really into his girlfriend then he should either sort it out or end things before pursuing another woman. The last time he was on line he said he was on holiday abroad and in the middle of the conversation he suddenly disappeared. When I said oh what happened to you, you were typing a message to me and then suddenly vanished, all he said was oh it could not have been that important because I cannot remember what I was typing about. He made no reference to the fact that he disappeared It was very early in the morning and I was wondering whether he was on holiday with his girlfriend and she woke up and he suddenly left the internet because otherwise she would have seen him chatting to someone and asked about it. I may be completely wrong but why else would someone just go like that without a word unless their computer crashed and then if that was me I would reboot and continue the conversation. Is he a player to me and perhaps to her> He seems so polite and not one of the usual perverts you get in a chat room