I'm feeling really confused.

[Sorryfofty]

I'm late 20s with a DS. Single parent. Always been with men but been attracted to men and women. Never done anything with a women though. The older I've got the more these feelings towards women are confusing me. I think I'm Bi but how do i know if I've never had any experience with a women? I'm feeling very confused. Also I've begun speaking to another women who I vaguely know and she seems really lovely but I'm not openly out as Bi and I'm nervous and just really confused? Any advice?

Anyone?

I don’t think you necessarily need to label yourself. If you want to develop things with this woman then go for it.

Is there a reason you need to have a label in place for yourself? Can you say why that aspect seems to worry you so much?

Could you not just pursue this lady and see what happens? I myself am pretty straight, but have had serious crushes on women, it happens. No one is completely heterosexual. It's perfectly ok to explore a relationship with someone who is not your usual type iyswim. A change is as good as a holiday etc. and you just never know how lovely it might turn out to be!

I guess that's a good way of looking at it. I guess it doesn't have to have a label. Also I think what's making me nervous is what other people think and I know I shouldn't care what they think. My parents have extreme views about things which I obviously don't share so if I were to say i had a girlfriend in not sure how they would react

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