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Should I go back to my husband

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Rosebel · 05/09/2019 21:23

I left my husband 2 weeks ago after he but me infront of our eldest daughter. I am living with my parents at the moment but finding it stressful. My parents don't know why I walked away and my dad keeps pressuring me to go back to my husband and work things out. My mum hasn't said anything except she'll support me whatever I decide. My husband keeps phoning and texting me saying how much he loves me and reminding me of all the good times we had.My girls are also desperate to go home and cry because they miss their dad. I miss him too. Should I go back to him? I thought walking away was,the right thing but everyone seems miserable now..

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ForkHandlesplease · 07/09/2019 08:11

I would suggest you get your mum or dad to hand the girls over for meeting., but only if you want them to meet their dad.
Absolutely no way you should go and play happy families.

AnnaNimmity · 07/09/2019 08:15

Agree, don't go there with him and the children. Can your mum be there?

But maybe you need advice also from WA before you do this? I really would worry about letting my children be with someone who has been violent and I'm pretty sure social services would have something to say (I reported my ex to the police for assault and social services said they'd need to involved if I saw him again - because of the need to protect my children).

AnnaNimmity · 07/09/2019 08:17

I also think you need to start thinking about counselling for your children - I assume they want to speak to someone about this. I don't know what the process is I'm afraid, but I do know adults who were in the position as children.

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