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Is he going to think I'm stalking him?

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autumnwonder · 01/09/2019 09:03

I was seeing a guy and he told me another woman was interested,even showed me a pic on her Facebook and mentioned her name.
Out of the blue he said he didn't want to see me again...I asked if it was because of this other woman and he said i don't have to tell you.
Which is fair enough.
He continued messaging.
So I'm sat on instagram and her profile shows up in the suggested tab ..
So I try to resist but I click and scroll her pics.
Come off and think no more till the next day when I get the urge for another look.
Now her account is private
I'm worried I've accidentally liked her pic or something and she's told him.
He hasn't spoken in a day.
Is he going to think I'm a stalker here?
I'm sure I'm not the only one who's been curious before am I ?

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SevenStones · 01/09/2019 17:35

The minute a guy showed me pics of another woman who was interested in him I'd be saying bye!

Glad you blocked him, he sounds a total knob.

SandyY2K · 01/09/2019 17:43

The kind of guy who tells you someone else is interested in him and shows you her pic/tells you her name would alert me as being a red flag..he's trying to show you he has options and is in demand.

Erase him from your life.

AMAM8916 · 01/09/2019 18:13

Block him and delete his number. Take a month off like you said then move on. He sounds about 12. Twat

ILikeyourHairyHands · 01/09/2019 18:42

Just as an aside, if you looked at any of her stories on Instagram, she'll have known as you can see if someone's viewed them. That only relates to stories though not regular posts.

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