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First night nerves

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Sonervousabouttonight · 31/08/2019 11:04

Well - new man and nice hotel booked and meal booked for out first night together. Am I'm absolutely shitting myself! In my 40s so should be a little more confident but am really really nervous about sleeping with him. I like him a lot but don't like my wobbly bits at all. And I've just started having period pain cramps so the timing is awful. Please wise MNetters help me calm down - all a dive welcome!

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Sonervousabouttonight · 31/08/2019 11:04

advice!

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Everafter1 · 31/08/2019 11:21

Nerves are exciting & a good sign 😊
This is lovely he's taking you on an overnight.
I actually miss the nerves and butterflies lol

After a glass of wine you'll feel better.

Everyone has wobbly bits and he won't care AT ALL! I suspect he'll take more of a lead the first time when it comes to it so that pressure is off you, go with the flow.

Advice? Just the usual stuff really, don't get too too drunk to calm your nerves, if your stomach is bad with nerves take imodium & make a safe food choice at your meal & be prepared incase your period pain comes to anything.

Once you're there the nerves will go away. Have an amazing night!

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Sonervousabouttonight · 31/08/2019 11:32

Thanks everafter ! He's a fantastic guy - has already said we'll find our own pace and doesn't want to push if I'm spitting butterflies Grin
Just so gutted about my period but too late to cancel now. He's very relaxed so hope he won't freak Blush

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Windmillwhirl · 31/08/2019 11:38

Don't worry about wobbly bits Grin nice lingerie and a gorgeous scent will make you feel sexy!

Relax and enjoy Grin

JacquesHammer · 31/08/2019 11:45

Have fun.

Remember it’s fine to change your mind if you want. At any time.

Be safe.

Everafter1 · 31/08/2019 12:03

That's great then!

Typical about your period, he'll understand & on the plus side you don't need to even consider that tonight. Next time you might be less nervous 😊

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Sonervousabouttonight · 31/08/2019 12:20

Am raring to go now - must have been an uncharatertic brain fart from me Grin hoping prayingmy period is very light - usually are!

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Sonervousabouttonight · 01/09/2019 12:04

Best night ever 😎

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Propertyofhood · 01/09/2019 12:06

Best night ever

Yaaaaaaasssss!

Also a bit jealous now Grin

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Sonervousabouttonight · 01/09/2019 12:14

Propertyofhood am literally in the clouds lol Blush nerves were just a load of bollocks. Grin such a fantastic night!

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SpoonBlender · 01/09/2019 12:15
Grin
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Sonervousabouttonight · 01/09/2019 12:17

And thank you Everafter1 for the moral push and practical advice. It got me there Smile

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busybarbara · 01/09/2019 12:33

Can I have his number Wink

Elmo311 · 01/09/2019 13:34

So what did you get up to OP? :)

Everafter1 · 01/09/2019 13:40

Amazing!!! I'm so happy for you 😁

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Sonervousabouttonight · 01/09/2019 14:42

Elmo311 - everything Grin
Was simply amazing Blush
Had such a wobble before and first dash was to MN lol. But no need to worry!

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joystir59 · 01/09/2019 14:47

Congratulations OP!

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Sonervousabouttonight · 01/09/2019 14:52

I'm still grinning like a mad fucker Grin

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Elmo311 · 01/09/2019 18:57

Happy for you!!!

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