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So confused

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Auntyfannybaws · 23/08/2019 22:40

I don't even know what to write, so much confusion he says it's me I can't take a joke I dramatise everything but he talks me round in circles I get confused and upset, I'm so tired, he's a good man but these small petty fights are never ending, if I suggest counseling he says there's nothing wrong I just need to stop being sensitive, I just want peace in my.life.

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actuallyquitesmall · 23/08/2019 23:39

What are the petty fights about? It seems to me that he may not be a good man at all. Do you have dc?

Abusers often twist things to confuse you, tell you it's all your fault, you can't take a joke, you are too sensitive, overdramatic etc, etc, etc.

Counselling could be very helpful, but you need to go on your own, not with him.

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