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Advice re His Secret Obsession

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TableDesk · 17/08/2019 20:37

Really feel a bit of a twat posting this as I know it's bullshit....
However, has anyone ever heard or used the His Secret Obsession theory by James Bauer to attract a lifetime partner?

A friend of my is talking about it and I feel a bit Hmm at it. Obviously it's a money making exercise but I don't know, it just feels like it's targeting the vulnerable.

Does anyone have any experience with it?

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PicsInRed · 17/08/2019 20:46

Obsession's all very well when they "love" you not really. It's the break up that's a touch dangerous.

Obsessed men. Hard pass on that, thanks.

FuriousVexation · 17/08/2019 20:47

Never heard of it, is it a pik up market thing?

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TableDesk · 17/08/2019 21:03

It's meant to be like tapping into the deepest darkest parts in a man's brain and that triggers his "obsession"

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PicsInRed · 17/08/2019 22:04

Sounds brill.
Does it come with free restraining order?

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TableDesk · 17/08/2019 22:56

Grin definitely not free - you have to pay for the privilege

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SlightlyMisplacedSingleDad · 17/08/2019 23:10

Sounds like utter bollocks. But, hell, plenty of men behave like pricks playing their obnoxious Pick Up Artist games to manipulate women, so I guess it was inevitable that some women would want to do the same.

RevSeptimusHarding · 17/08/2019 23:15

A way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

That will be £25 please.

RushianDisney · 17/08/2019 23:43

According to the website the information is for 'entertainment' purposes only. How reading more of the drivel on the webpage will be entertaining I don't know. I'm amazed that they make any money at all, but I imagine it is very hard to obtain the refund they offer for any reason in 60 days. Is your friend very dim in general OP? Has she paid for it?

FuriousVexation · 18/08/2019 06:11

If you're trying to get your friend a refund, then give us a clue OP

Mileysmiley · 18/08/2019 06:14

sounds a bit stalkerish

75Renarde · 18/08/2019 06:54

Bad. Awful. And I've not even read it.

Its describing a narc dynamic.

TemporaryPermanent · 18/08/2019 06:56

It sounds like a way to become the kind of ex-girlfriend that makes him go all pale and stammery whenever he thinks of you. And which means his future partners have to second guess their every move around him. Cheers, sister.

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TableDesk · 18/08/2019 20:48

Thankfully I told her it's utter bollocks and complete narc behaviour.
She has told me she hasn't paid for it but seems to know an awful lot about it Hmm She is usually very adept however her current relationship is causing her grief.
I'm trying to support, however it's getting increasingly hard not to shake her and tell her to wise up!

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