Anyone put off by kissing

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Just in general I don't like full on kissing it makes me feels yuck. Like are their teeth clean, or is food stick in them, plaque?. I don't know just when I kiss I can't stop thinking about those things and puts me off.

Anyone else or just me. How do I get over this.

You may be kissing the wrong people, how old are you?

I'm 30. I have a dp and fancy him so it's strange that I feel like that about kissing

How do you deal with a penis then?

**How do you deal with a penis then?

Checking no food stuck in it and no plaque 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm not keen on kissing. Feels very suffocating.

Little what about hairs? Smegma? Piss. Sweat?

I mean, if the thought of a dirty mouth puts you off, then handling someones genitals must be a real hardship.

I do understand though. I have to be really into someone and trust their hygiene to swap spit.

"Little what about hairs? Smegma? Piss. Sweat?

I mean, if the thought of a dirty mouth puts you off, then handling someones genitals must be a real hardship."
She's asking about kissing and mouths though.

@TubbyMonkeh
My comment was tongue in cheek sorry. I personally have no issue kissing or handling anything else although you mentioned all this... 😱

OP - it can be really enjoyable if you focus on how it makes you feel and the person giving you the kiss, how you feel about him rather than focussing on his teeth.

If someone has bad breath or I can see plaque then there is no way I would be kissing them.

If you both practice good hygeine i can't see a problem. However, if you don't like something, don't do it.

You're kissing the wrong person.

i understand! but maybe in a different way - i do sometimes enjoy kissing when it's happening but i don't feel that i'm very good at it, so i always overthink it and usually this means i can't relax and enjoy it usually.

Nope I love kissing. I only get put off by bad kissers and I don't think about oral hygiene, I dont tend to want to kiss people with manky teeth.

I actually cant tolerate someone's tongue in my mouth it gives me the heave.

Some people are terrible at kissing, but when it's good, it's lovely

awww kissing is the best! proper snogging. love it

I would definitely rather have a dick in my mouth than a tongue.