Shagged and pied

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He's married so it's karma I guess but it bloody stings. I feel sorry for his wife.
He's now blocked and I feel like I want to destroy him

Take this as a lesson and move onto a single man. Take classes to improve your self-confidence if you have to.

You sound like a delight.
Don’t have sex with married men
Not sure why you want to destroy him, you clearly didn’t feel THAT bad for his wife.

Did you feel sorry for his wife when you were in bed with him. I doubt it.

I didn't know until a week after and some Facebook stalking

Karma indeed is a bee-atch. You don’t feel sorry for his wife - you feel sorry for yourself.

What is shagged and pied?
Obvs something I never want happening to me.
It sounds bad op.

Bit of a drip feed there!

That's horrible for you.. did you think he was single ? Did he tell you he was. How long before sleeping with him did you know him ?

Why would you think its Karma if you didnt know he was married?

Look, this happens to the best of us. The snagged and pied bit.

Maybe use your facebook investigative skills to use before you sleep with someon?

How did you meet him?

I have googled and the only result was this thread.
Is shagged and pied an expression?
It sounds so filthy.

Shagged and pied means he had sex with op then ghosted her.

Find out her info and tell her.
Why should he get off Scott free?

Next time ask the man if he is single.

If you didn't know he was married why would it be Karma? You haven't actually done anything wrong...

I feel like dirt
I didn't know but it still happened

@Gorris..... pied is the youth expression for dumped/ignored or rejecting someone’s advances....also referred to as “he pied us off”.....you need to watch Georgie shore!!

I'd just notify the wife and then try to move on.

Pied means dropped and ignored.

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=PIED

Or porn induced erectile dysfunction.

Why would you feel bad. He is at fault, not you!
I can’t believe someone said you should have investigated him sooner!

It can happen to anyone, regardless if the man is married or not. Don't beat yourself up OP, just be savvier next time. I would let the wife know if I could, I doubt she will want to be with the dickhead either.

Don't feel bad. Next time don't sleep with them until you know them well enough (to know they're not married).

I'd love to let the wife know but she doesn't deserve her whole world ripped apart

OP - I would want to know. You wouldn’t rip her world apart, he has!
Besides, you don’t know how many ppl he’s done it to and what STDs he’s bringing her back home.

Wow. Every day a school day! Thanks everyone.
I knew it didn’t sound good.

You’ve done nothing wrong OP. Absolutely nothing. By all means feel sad, but don’t feel that you deserve it.

I’m in favour of telling her (as kindly as possible) too.