I have a very recent ex (last week) who I have to spend time with tomorrow.
I have spent the last week absolutely devastated but also starting to attempt to heal from quite some time of being in an emotionally withholding relationship.
It ended on my ex telling me that she didn’t feel/understand her own emotion so found mine even harder.
She told me that when I was crying and breaking to her and utterly confused and lost that she felt guilty and sad for me but mostly wished it would stop because it was uncomfortable for her.
Anyway that’s just a bit of back story and I now realise I’m so much better off alone