Please help o wise ones. Dipping my toes in and the men are so intense so quickly - I haven't actually met them in person or even spoken to them but declaring I'm the one for them! I'm kind of flattered but are they (a) desperate (b) weird or (c) I'm an amazing catch 
I've offered to meet one half way between our houses (so easy day trip) and he wants to get a hotel and was most put out when I said no (I would add he planned to book two rooms because he wasn't that kind of man so wasn't about sex).
I'm just taken aback, perhaps being starved of affection by h for so many years has made me forget what lust is???