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Lies lies lies

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Elljack · 03/08/2019 14:17

Advice please...my husband lies constantly..he will lie to the death right up to the point where I will show him concrete evidence. He lies over things that he doesn’t even need to for example I will say “wasn’t that a cute photo of our daughter on my fb story” and he will say I don’t know what you are on about I’ve never seen your story...but then his name is there as he has viewed it....he’s lied about massive things (hiding alcohol) but it just seems it’s everything now and he will even make up a little story such as “no I didn’t have any lunch today then his bloody plate is in the sink....what is going on here...I feel like I am losing my mind

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HollowTalk · 03/08/2019 14:18

You WILL lose your mind if you stay with him. Has he always been the same? What do his family and friends say? Or does he save his lies for you?

Elljack · 03/08/2019 14:32

He could have been lying for all this time and I've been unaware...i think it's just to me...

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user1486131602 · 03/08/2019 17:15

Pathological lying is a symptom of something greater.
Get him diagnosed and treated or leave.

AFistfulofDolores1 · 03/08/2019 19:42

Why on earth are you staying with him?

Elljack · 03/08/2019 22:51

I still love him...I know it's pathetic but my self esteem is so low...do you think if I worked on that and my self confidence it would help to leave? I feel like I'm unhappy if I leave and unhappy if I stay...

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bwydda · 03/08/2019 22:54

When you say, I love him but. If there's a but- (and here the but isnhis lying) then you can't say you love HIM.

Your self esteem is too low op. You are worth more

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