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How did you find a second phone

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Newjobthoughts · 29/07/2019 20:57

I've suspect ed for a while there may be someone else. Asked DH to look at phone, refused and went bananas. Then very secret etc, now 180 degrees different. Leaves open etc.

I know the trust is gone but I think could work at. Although that's not the question I need answering now, I want evidence.

How did you find a phone?

OP posts:
Newjobthoughts · 29/07/2019 22:09

Sorry to post again, am going mad think inf he must have one. I googled and saw you can search for Bluetooth appliances, I did and nothing

OP posts:
Andallofasuddenitsover · 29/07/2019 22:11

The affair is probably over OP.

JK1773 · 29/07/2019 22:12

Mine left his charging on our bed!!
I don’t know how you’d search for one in the house. I’ve heard the car is often a hiding place

Closetbeanmuncher · 29/07/2019 22:33

Car (most likely where spare tyre is)
Workbag
Gymbag

Try heading out and pop back 5 mins later because you've "forgotten something" you might get a clue as to what room if its in the house.

NewMe2019 · 29/07/2019 22:40

Ex and I had already split but I had suspicions that something wasn't right with him and I didn't trust him (we were still living together and trying to organise assets). I searched his stuff not really knowing what I was looking for and was extremely surprised to find a second phone hidden in the front pocket of his work bag. Given we had already split, he should have had no use for a second phone so it's highly likely he has had it for a long time.

NewMe2019 · 29/07/2019 22:42

I also found some other items and on checking more than once, they seemed to appear and disappear. I suspect he kept things in his car as well.

So work stuff and car would be my bet. Also maybe underwear drawer. Found some things there too.

stucknoue · 29/07/2019 22:51

My friend found one behind the coffee, she never drank or made coffee but her h's brother arrived early whilst her h was still out and asked for coffee (she offered him a drink) they are divorcing!

daisyboocantoo · 30/07/2019 11:03

My friend found out only when she contacted the ow, who send screen shots of their phone logs. There was DH and DH2 logged...

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