We've not got along for a long time but it's completely come to a head tonight. Ds has behavioural issues and dh just shouted do it or I leave then when I questioned him he reckons he's fed up with it and he's embarrassed by it all and me shouting. Yes I shout sometimes but honestly I don't mean it but sometimes ds pushes every button. I've no idea where to start, I don't earn enough to live anywhere and he's telling me he'll have kids.