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Tearing after sex

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Msgiggles30 · 28/07/2019 15:45

Hi this is slightly embarrassing but haven't had any response on the sex board thought there may be more traffic here! Does anyone else experience tearing and redness/soreness at the bottom of thier vagina/vulva right athe entrance. I think the correct term for that part is called the fourchette? Lubrication is not a problem but sex can be quite rough. It gets red there and seems to tear a bit most times. It does heal up in a few days and doesnt cause too much discomfort but just wondering if anyone has it or has any advice or whether it's something that needs checking out? Blush Many thanks!

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pinkypromisex · 28/07/2019 16:30

I have suffered with this. My partner is quality g

pinkypromisex · 28/07/2019 16:33

Apologies posted too soon! My partner is quite "girthy" for want of a better word Blush. I don't see it as a problem but it means we can only really have full sex every few days.

Msgiggles30 · 28/07/2019 16:38

Ah glad it's not just me! Yes this is the problem here I only really see my partner once a week at the moment so it's okay hur any more than twice a week is a bit of an issue. I think it's the same place everytime that's maybe reopening and sore

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Msgiggles30 · 28/07/2019 16:39

*but

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pinkypromisex · 28/07/2019 16:42

Different positions are easier, find out what works best for you. Unfortunately my favourite seems to be the worst for this so I always regret it very soon afterwards 😂😂

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