Just when you think things cannot get any worse...

[TwoIfBySea]

...they always do.

So ex-dh as he is now agreed to family mediation only to drop his bomb shell tonight. The reason he left was actually because a few months back he slept with some girl while down south with work.

That is that then, goodbye and goodnight. No reconcilliation on the cards. That is why he is acting so selfish, walking out on us like that.

I feel sick.

so sorry to hear this - it amazes me how it all comes out in the end,

i have been split for 2 years, and have only found out the full story of the other women (who he marries in 4 weeks) i thought i would feel better knowing the truth as i kept going over it all in my head wondering what went on etc....

stay strong....

sorry to hear tgat TwoIfBySea, but would you want to get back with him knowing what he had done ? look after yourself and your family, I would also suggest having a health check as wellx

That SUX!

Sorry to hear that.

sorry to hear that...breaking up is horrible and it is a real struggle to cope without it getting more horrible

Sorry to hear you're feeling so low.

Is there no chance of a reconcilliation at all? Is he still seeing this woman and has ended your relationship, or are you saying that now he has told you, there's no way you want a reconcilliation?