He asked about my mother's sex life??! WTF?!!

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Went on a date yesterday with a chap I've been chatting to via text for about 6 weeks. He seemed ok and he spoke about his daughter's and showed me photos. They were teens. I then showed him a pic of my daughter who is 22 and he said "woohhaoaooh! She's sexy!". It was a head and shoulder shot so I thought it was a bit bizarre, but tried to put his comment to the back of my mind.
Later on during the lunch, we spoke about our families and he said "so do you think your mum (she's 74) is still sexually active?".
Am I being too prudish or shall I run for the hills?!!!

Run, run, as fast as you can!

Not prudish at all. Sex on the brain.
Anyone who was on a date with me and made any sexual comments about any member of my family would be gone.
Vile.

If you have to ask... Seriously the daughter stuff should have had you in the starting blocks.

😳 wtaf.....?

But then apparently some people like dick pics!

Why would you even ask?!

I wouldn't put any of those comments out of my mind. I would be thinking of them every time I saw him, and that's why ,I could never see him again.

Jesus Christ. What a fucking creep! I have DD 21y OP and would hit the roof if someone I was on a date with said that to me. I’m well aware that my DD is attractive but hearing that from a prospective partner is disgusting.

As for your mother... what a dirty fucker.

Run for the hills!

OMG what is wrong with people?!

Absolutely run for the hills.

Why would you spend even a second longer with some perve who's just told you he thinks your daughter is sexy?!?!?! Let alone any other comments

Feel sick reading that, tbh anyone that would put that comment to the back of their mind is a bit desperate, how you could not have seen the flags hitting you in your face at that point I'll never know

The hills are not far enough. Run and don't stop running.

That is beyond weird... get those trainers on and run!

I had a date once who asked if my daughter (aged 19 at the time) and I where up for a threesome
I ran as fast as I bloody could
Last I heard he was up in a rape charge

Eh 6 weeks you're chatting to his kids showing pics of your dd is too soon as it is. But dear God the min he said that about your dd you should have cut contact. Imagine dating him long term and him drooling over your dd. Then the comment about your mother !!! Fuck that he's a weirdo and I hope you have the cop on to see that

Actually, I'm no troll. For 6 weeks I've been chatting to him and he seemed like a real gent. Very lovely, articulate and "normal". Yesterday was the first time we had met having had heaps of hours talking on the phone and via texts etc.
I was so stunned by his comments as I genuinely thought he was a decent bloke!
I'm sure many people have shared photos of their lives with six weeks? I've certainly not spoken to his kids!
I'm still baffled as to why someone who showed NO sign of being a perv came out with those comments!??!

I shall be running for the hills! I've not contacted him since as I have been so utterly perplexed.

He said your daughter was sexy and yet you continued the date?

Your might boundaries need firming up a bit, because he's a revolting creep.

Sick fuckers???? Me?

...seem to have transposed a couple of words there

I was halfway through a meal and was so stunned, I didn't really know what to do. The comment about my mother was just weird in the extreme. I'm rarely lost for words, but was totally stunned !

Well, I would have left the date after the sexy daughter comment.

What? Mid meal in a crowded restaurant?

I'd have gone home there and then and promptly blocked him tbh.

You need to work on your boundaries, most people would have left after the daughter comment. Mid meal or not.

You need to ask?