She's relentless and I'm at my wits end :(
It started off with abusive messages to my now husband about me (never met or spoken to her). Then a message directly to me which i ignored and blocked her on all forms of social media. My workplace wrote to her workplace to try and put an end to it (her accusations risked my job so my work stepped in). We were asked if we wanted to make a formal complaint and we said no, hoping it would be enough to end it.
3 months later she contacts my boss directly with a huge barrage of outright lies. Thankfully my boss knows me and replied saying do not contact us again.
At the point it became clear she'd been digging in my private life so i did make a formal complaint to her employer. She is now in the middle of gross misconduct proceedings.
Over the last few months she has used her children's social media to spy on me, come to our front door and demanded to speak to me (i had to hide), tried to bump into me in public places etc.
Should i be considering legal steps now?
Worst still in hortible messages to my husband she has accused ME of being the bully and of harrassing her by making the complaint against her which has been deemed gross misconduct by her own workplace!!! Im so so drained someone please help :(
I was in an abusive marriage for a decade. I feel like ive swapped one sort of abuse for another :(