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Help 6 year old walked in on an intimate moment

101 replies

Magic32019 · 12/07/2019 07:06

So I'm 19 weeks pregnant and finding sex a painful experience currently so his morning to help my husband out we were let's say rubbing him sweetly whilst i whispered naughty things in his ear and our 6 year old daughter had walked in unbeknown to us as soon as I saw her I covered him and asked her to leave.
I feel awful I don't know how much she saw I spoken to her gently and said for our privacy can she knock as sometimes we have special cuddles as we love each other very much and that she wasn't in trouble. But I feel horrified she may have seen my husband with an erection 😩😩 she is my eldest so this is new territory for us how do you deal with this situation?

OP posts:
NomDeQwerty · 12/07/2019 15:38

You want one of these.
Then when you're in the mood you can lean over and whisper huskily in his ear, "Shall I put the clip on tonight, darling?"

Help 6 year old walked in on an intimate moment
Fairenuff · 12/07/2019 15:45

I think you handled it exactly as I would have

CatG85 · 12/07/2019 15:48

Sex is a happy, loving, natural part of an adult relationship. Why not just tell her that? She's 6 and you have one on the way so surely you've already told her how conception works?

At 6?! Shock Far too young in my opinion!

SolsticeBabyMaybe · 12/07/2019 15:50

Only here for 'rubbing him sweetly' lol

justasking111 · 12/07/2019 15:53

I just know rubbing him sweetly is going to turn up as a user name. Grin

rvby · 12/07/2019 15:59

At 6?! shock Far too young in my opinion!

www.heysigmund.com/kid-needs-know-age-age-guide-sex-education/

Please educate your children. "Sheltered" children are more at risk of abuse. Age 6 is a normal, good age to start learning the basics about sexuality... not only as a foundation for future education, but also to protect them so that they can identify when someone is being inappropriate with them.

OP, what happened with your DD is a non issue and if she asks questions, just be frank with her. Keep it simple. Sexuality is part of life and she is not a baby, this is an opportunity to educate her.

princessTiasmum · 12/07/2019 16:01

Can't help laughing at the replies to this Grin

Drum2018 · 12/07/2019 16:03

Rub it sweetly and you'll still be at it by teatime. hmm
It needs a nice firm grip then get on with your day
. 🤣

Grin
Yellowweatherwarning · 12/07/2019 16:04

Maybe the op refers to it as his magic lamp?

QueenOfTheCroneAge · 12/07/2019 16:33

Maybe the op refers to it as his magic lamp?
GrinGrinGrin

Closetbeanmuncher · 12/07/2019 17:26

@SkintAsASkintThing - same

@unlimiteddilutingjuice & @queenofthecroneage 😂😂

It's called a hand job OP, you were giving him a hand job 🤣

Closetbeanmuncher · 12/07/2019 17:27

"I'm in the mood to help you dude; ain't never had a friend like me" 😂😂

QueenOfTheCroneAge · 12/07/2019 17:31

Poor OP, I bet she's cringing reading this thread!

Guiltypleasures001 · 12/07/2019 17:36

Rubbing him sweetly

Help 6 year old walked in on an intimate moment
CaptainCabinets · 12/07/2019 17:37

I was already giggling but @Closetbeanmuncher that has completely finished me off 😂😂😂😂😂

....if you’ll pardon the pun.

FrangipaniBlue · 12/07/2019 17:41

Can we please stop I'm on a bus full of primary kids on our way home from a residential and the replies on this thread are killing me 🙈🙈🤣🤣

CaptainCabinets · 12/07/2019 17:43

Rub me tender, rub me sweet...

NoBaggyPants · 12/07/2019 17:44

that has completely finished me off

Something you won't hear OP's husband saying today!

IntoValhalla · 12/07/2019 17:44

@Closetbeanmuncher aaaaand you win the whole Internet today Grin

QueenOfTheCroneAge · 12/07/2019 17:46

@CaptainCabinets FFS GrinGrinGrin

SylvanianFrenemies · 12/07/2019 17:47

Where you are going wrong is "rubbing him sweetly".

You'd be done and dusted much more quickly if you Were "ripping the heid aff it", as we say around here...

Pinkgin22 · 12/07/2019 18:01

😂😂 these replies are amazing 😂

golddustwomen · 12/07/2019 18:03

Well @Guiltypleasures001 you just made my Friday 😂

LolaSmiles · 12/07/2019 18:06

Rub it sweetly and you'll still be at it by teatime.
It needs a nice firm grip then get on with your day
Grin
This is what makes mumsnet brilliant.

FertilitySchmertility · 12/07/2019 18:06

It’s okay to say you’re wanking him off. Your DD just saw your husband with a hard on - it’s a bit late to be coy.

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