Confront a cheat or not?

[Joanne2810]

I’ve just split with my partner of 5 years and he swore there was no-one else involved and today I found out he has moved in with someone and he is still telling me he is living in a different part of the country but in reality he’s only 4 miles down the road. I really want to go and confront him and just take his stuff and dump it on the doorstep. So angry at all the lies he’s told. He must think I’m thick!! I suppose the question is should I confront him?

I would love to say be the bigger person and let it go but I wouldn't if it were me. I would have to confront him in some way or another. Not sure how I'd do it but know I would! I'd bide me time though

What an arsehole btw you're well rid

He owes me money which he said he would pay on Thursday so I won’t be doing anything before then in case he then doesn’t send it!!

I'd also say I'd like to think I'd be the bigger person...
But if I knew the address he'd moved to I'd dump his stuff on the drive...dont actually confront him, but when he finds that you've 'dropped his stuff off' he will know that you know.....

If he doesn't cough up, unpick all the crotch bits of all his trousers then drop all his stuff in her garden... No need for confrontation...

If he's doesn't pay you by Thursday turn up at his new address on Friday and say you e come to collect!