Lurker for a while first post...
Ups and downs in marriage always supporting him and getting much in return. Except time when he was accusing me of an affair ( after merry christmas message popped on my phone on boxing day 3 years ago)
I feel taken for granted and because of long time he was like that can't appreciate he changed now.
Got a text at 10pm: won't be back after work need to think. Fair enough
But then though something not right so crack facebook and clearly he is teasing a girl who just started working there. Doubt sexual way but he will not be on his own to think...and he never being helpful to join friends either
Just need some perspective..is it worth? We have kids 7 and 10 and bloody fixed mortgage just signed for another 2 years!