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I fancy the postie!

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Sophie89101 · 29/06/2019 20:06

Hello!

So I'm new to mumsnet. Long time lurker. I'm a 30yo single mum with two daughters.

I'll get straight to it. I order quite a lot of things online so the postie knocks on my door quite often. It's only been recently however that we started talking. Nothing much, just a bit of small talk and maybe light flirting? Hard to tell!

Today was lovely. He knocked this morning and as I answered my little yorkie ran out and he ran after her, picked her up and brought her back. Seems silly but a little gesture like that really meant a lot!

Anyway, I'm hopeless at taking initiative with these sorts of things. I have no idea if he's single and don't really know how to go about finding out?

Thank you!

OP posts:
Sophie89101 · 06/07/2019 18:25

Thank you again everyone :)

I saw him today for the first time since he left his number. I felt rather awkward initially answering the door to him but that feeling went once we got chatting. Maybe it's just me but he seemed a bit nervous, as well. It was like there was an elephant in the room until we eventually talked about next Tuesday. He's still on for it and said he's looking forward to it. I said I am too. Bless him though he said he wasn't sure if he'd done the right thing by leaving his number and that it was such a relief when I sent him a message! I said I'm really sorry for taking so long with it and it was because I was so taken back by it. He said it's totally fine :)

He said he won't be on my round monday so I'll next see him Tuesday!

I'm really trying not to make such a big deal out of this, but it's been so long since I've done anything like this and I fancy him a lot more now so it's making it very difficult to not see this as a big deal!

Venting it all here helps though x

OP posts:
DearPru · 06/07/2019 18:52

@sophie89101 - vent away! Sounds like he was being brave leaving his number as were you inviting him in. Sounds like your both on the same page. I’m getting good feelings about it.

You’ll be able to have a proper catch up on Tuesday and find out all about one another.
Xx

dreichhighlands · 06/07/2019 18:59

This is a genius thread. Enjoy Tuesday OP.

Rosielily · 06/07/2019 19:06

Blatantly placemarking! What a wonderful story unfolding here! 💖

Al2O3 · 07/07/2019 06:43

First Class!

feesh · 07/07/2019 06:56

Blatant placemarkage

Palaver1 · 07/07/2019 07:04

That’s the way to go nice and easy
Very exciting no if his for you his for you
So excited on your behalf xxx

FollowYourOwnNorthStar · 07/07/2019 07:15

So exciting OP!

Ringdonna · 07/07/2019 07:32

He will soon be slipping a large package in your letterbox....

BillywilliamV · 07/07/2019 07:36

Place marking too!

Tittybiscuit · 07/07/2019 07:38

What a lovely thread! So glad you went for it!

Shamelessly placemarking

ItWentInMyEye · 07/07/2019 07:42

Lovely thread OP! Thanks

soarin · 07/07/2019 07:42

Yay! What a lovely thread. Can't wait to hear about Tuesday :)

WanderingTrolley1 · 07/07/2019 07:45

Ooooh. Excited for you, Sophie!

Everythingmagnolia · 07/07/2019 07:49

Love this thread, good luck OP

Xanadu58 · 07/07/2019 07:58

So excited for you! Good luck on Tues!

BigcatLittlecat · 07/07/2019 08:03

This is such a feel good thread! And so exciting too! Can't wait for the update on Tuesday!!

Firefly111 · 07/07/2019 08:20

Love this thread! Not long until Tuesday now!

Bwekfusth · 07/07/2019 08:36

I love this!!!

surlycurly · 07/07/2019 08:41

Jings this is a delight. I also dated my postie a few years ago. I wish you all the best!!

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 08/07/2019 09:42
Glitterball
Loladisco · 08/07/2019 11:15

Amazing thread, well done OP! I hope Tuesday goes brilliantly

hazandduck · 08/07/2019 17:29

Aw I love this thread! Excited to hear about tomorrow! ❤️

Aperolspritztime · 08/07/2019 18:54
Grin
Robin2323 · 08/07/2019 18:56

This is so lovely.
Relax.
Be yourself and have a lovely time on Tuesday :)

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