'You only want me for what you can get out of me'

[Brownbread9]

My dm said this to me. What did she mean? I've never had a penny handed to me, nor help with anything/babysitting/house/car/holidays whatever. NOTHING. I think she's a narc. What on earth was she thinking of at the time? Try & explain it to me from a narc's perspective.

Narcs often accuse their supply of doing exactly what they actually do. It's a headfuck!

Does she have a home that you will inherit or inherit part of when she dies?

I don't expect to inherit anything, why does that matter?

Decades ago she told me when she dies everything goes to my step dad & on his death to his brother. Me & my sibling weren't mentioned & I didn't dare ask.

Oh tell her to fuck off. She sounds like nasty piece of work. She is an unhealthy presence in your life by the sounds of it. Get some therapy to work through all the feelings / emotions, because I imagine she will have caused you emotional harm over the years and focus on you. You really don't need this damaging, destructive force on your life.

Tell her you won't be caring for her in her old age as well

Reply "Suit yourself but just remember dear brother and I will be selecting your care home someday (Step Dad will probably drop long before you) and I'll make sure Nurse Ratchet becomes your private duty nurse,bitch!"