Hey , struggling to cope today . Had a massive argument with dh yesterday , it was his birthday I booked a hotel overnight stay for Friday bought him some nice presents we arranged to have the dc looked after Friday/Saturday . Came home Saturday suggested he goes out for a few beers with his mates he said no he wanted to stay in we could watch a film takeaway etc , so we go and I buy some snacks /alcohol for our night in . We get home he wants to go to the gym so I go do some gardening as it was still early in the day , he comes home and says I’m just going to go to the pub now ..... I feel so stupid for letting him treat me like this , I explained it upset me to be pushed aside considering we very rarely have no kids to look after and yet he feels it’s ok to have made plans with me now changing them and I’ve to sit home alone . Am I right to be annoyed ?? He sniggered at me when I got upset and does what he always does and says I’m moaning about him going out which is clearly not the case . So he left anyway at 5pm yesterday and I’ve had no contact or seen him since . Just needed to vent on here