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Mid life crisis?

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MLC69 · 21/06/2019 10:19

Hi there.
I think I might be going through a mid life crisis.
Happily married with 3 children. All seems good.
But, (you knew there was a but), recently when watching Naked Attraction, I was more interested in the ladies than the guys. Don't get me wrong, I loved the guys 😃 , but something intrigued me.
I've since watched a few more episodes on Catch-up 😊.

I've never had anything like this before. Not even a drunken snog with a girl when younger. But I have the urge to play with boobs like I like mine played with.

I'm a bit confused by it all, but excited at the same time.

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hellsbellsmelons · 21/06/2019 10:22

Seems you are bi-curious.
Nothing wrong with that.
But.... you are in a committed relationship with someone else with DC involved.
You can have fantasies as long as you don't act on them.
I find the female form much more attractive than the male form, but I'm not gay at all.
We can admire what others have, of course we can.

user1479305498 · 21/06/2019 11:52

Lots of women only like lesbian porn, many if not most would run a mile in real life, if a friend came onto them, the mind is a funny thing.

MLC69 · 21/06/2019 11:55

Maybe it is only a fantasy then

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hellsbellsmelons · 21/06/2019 13:20

It may well be.
Do you want to explore that side of yourself?
Do you love your DH?
How would you feel if he did something about his bi-curiousness?
It's cheating any which way you look at it.
But.... if you feel you may be gay then you need to get to know yourself more and see if that's what you want for your future.

MLC69 · 21/06/2019 15:39

It's tough. I see women on the street, at work and ice started to wonder what's under they're clothes .
But I do love him. If he had the same thoughts about a man, I'm not sure what I'd do.

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