Cheating

[kookieMonnster]

Anyone ever get the feeling your partner is cheating on you even though you know they aren't and they've actually give you no reason to believe they are ....or am I just a mess 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

So sorry. Just goes to show your instinct was right. Not that that is much consolation.

To make matters worse I went through something traumatic on Friday night and he's Still gone down anyway 😔😔 I might just pack his bags and leave them outside for when he comes back

Does he know you saw the message?

That escalated quickly.

He's home today and he still has no idea that I know he's been with a girl 😬 don't know what to do,
I feel physically sick he's coming home today

Have his bags packed on the doorstep.

Agree - pack his bags. If it makes you feel better, set fire to them 5 mins before he's due back, the prick.

I’m very sorry, kookie.

If I were you, I would text him that I know he’s a cheat, and that his things will be on the front step.

How did you get on @kookiemonnster?

@newmomof1 I kicked his ass to the curb 🤘🏼 his mum is fuming about the whole thing, his whole family had bonded with my daughter, we were meant to be moving into a new house next week, I'm beyond heartbroken, I've no idea what to do with myself now, we work at the same place, I don't have any friends around here that aren't his friends either, I'm 900+ miles away from my own family that I'm literally by myself, I've no idea where I go from here, he didn't even try to hide it, he told me everything but was really smug about it, told me he's been speaking to her for a year and I had absolutely no idea, he's being flung down to see his 'mates' and had really being seeing her for A WHOLE YEAR! How did I not see this 😩😩😩

I'm proud of you!
It sounds really tough but at least it happened before you moved in together etc.

He sounds like a complete dick. More fool her because he wasn't going to leave you - he would have continued to have his cake and eat it too.

You didn't realise because you trusted him - what he's done is no reflection on you, and I'm glad that you know you deserve better.

Is it possible for you to find a job and move closer to your family? Would you want to?

How closely do you have to work with him?

I’m so sorry, kookie. You must be shocked beyond belief. It sounds like he is remorseless and without a conscience. He is despicable and utterly unworthy of your and your daughter’s love.

Do you have access to individual counseling as a support to help you express your feelings, organize your thoughts, and make a plan?

Omg!
Kinda made me annoyed with some of the replies you had. It may have amounted to nothing with the inkling you had but to post on here would mean it’s a strong feeling.
Then to be proved right so quickly is such a a shame.

Hope you stay strong and keep well xxxx

Today is the last day in my house (he's still here, been sleeping on the sofa) he's left his phone in the house what a dick....so I take full advantage of this situation and look through it ......

@misspollie Are you the OP? Incredibly hard keeping up with this thread with so many name changes!