My husband told me today that during a night out with his work friends last friday he kissed one of his colleagues. He said he wasn't thinking properly because he had been drinking but then I saw him when he came home that night and was a bit tipsy but far from enough to say he didn't know what he was doing. This has really taken me by surprise, I don't understand why he would do that. We have a good relationship, we've been together for 14 years, married for nearly 4, we have a 2 month old DD, I really thought he wasn't like that. But then I wonder if I'm overreacting, it was just a kiss and he feels guilty enough to have come and told me about it (though he did think about it for a few days first). It could have meant nothing but then i do wonder if it did mean something, he spends a lot of time working with this woman and they're good friends, surely you wouldn't just kiss your friend for no reason? I really don't know what to even say to him