How do you know if you've made the right decision ? I'm in a relationship and he works in Europe (pilot) and is asking me to move with my child (from first marriage) and his baby. We've been managing long distance relationship so far. I'm not from Uk have had a failed marriage and from this marriage failure, can barley trust my decisions. I'm just so hesitant to commit and move for fear of failing. Is this normal to view things in their worst light ?