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Is my Husband Hiding Something?

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ChumpMummy · 05/06/2019 11:36

My husband is acting weird... I think he might be planning a birthday party for another woman!

Hello all, today I wish to share my, rather odd experience that I face at this current moment. Well, where do I begin?

It all started, when I was in the kitchen getting my morning cup of coffee, on the kitchen bench was a printer (Only there temporary as we are still shopping for a cabinet) when a HUGE birthday banner came out of the thing! I was so confused, it’s June, however, my birthday is in September! I did some research, and NONE of our relatives have any birthdays in June!

The banner said something along the lines of, Happy Birthday Julie! I was so shocked. There are no Julies’ in his work. So on the day (June 3rd) When the party was supposed to be happening I said I wanted to go out for dinner. But my husband said he was ‘busy’ and wanted to hang out with his friends. What do I do?

OP posts:
EileenAlanna · 05/06/2019 23:54

Can your mother/other family members go back to your house with you? He sounds like a really nasty piece of work & you should have support with you if you can. Preferably a couple of big burly brothers.

ChumpMummy · 06/06/2019 01:59

@EileenAlanna My kids are coming home today with me and we will wait till their dad comes home and I will talk to him.

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EileenAlanna · 06/06/2019 02:30

@ChumpMummy hope all goes well for you Flowers

mumofwantwomany · 06/06/2019 13:43

@ChumpMummy any update?

Frittata · 06/06/2019 15:44

Sorry OP Blush

Strawberry2017 · 06/06/2019 16:26

You are the easy person to blame because then he doesn't have to accept responsibility for his own behaviour.
Stand up for yourself. Don't listen to his abusive rubbish. Get your house back and tell him to leave.
No women needs a man like that. His new fancy piece will eventually see him for what he is too.
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