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I am mortified - incident this morning

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TashieWoo · 03/06/2019 07:13

Firstly I am NOT a poo troll.

My boyfriend who I have been with for 18 months stayed over last night and we went out for a drink with a couple whose wedding we are going to next weekend. All very nice... he woke up a bit hungover but I’m ok, I didn’t have much. He has to leave for work at 6.30 and I don’t leave until 8 so I make coffee when he’s in the shower and bring it up, we’re having coffee and my stomach starts making funny noises so I make my excuses and practically run downstairs and luckily I can hold it until I get to the loo, then my stomach basically explodes Blush. I cleaned myself up and go upstairs and just said... I need to get into the shower and I’m sorry, please can you see yourself out, he was leaving then anyway. I didn’t want him to touch me as I felt dirty... I’ve just messaged him to explain the situation delicately.

I’m just so embarrassed and scared he won’t be attracted to me anymore, the girl who had explosive diarrhoea. So ashamed. I don’t know why I’m posting, for reassurance I guess. He would have smelt it on his way out.

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TashieWoo · 04/06/2019 06:28

I know, I am ridiculous really. But before I hasn’t so much as farted in front of him, then I had a full on stomach upset. Made me feel disgusting. But it’s done now and he’s fine, I don’t think he even noticed much as PPs have said. And I apologised for chucking him out. Like I said, if the same had happened to him I’d feel sorry for him and not dump him. Going to a wedding this weekend so researching tummy friendly drinks! And won’t be having much at all, not that I had any more than usual the other night. Still feel a bit sick but loads better than I did, but as this has happened a few times recently I think I’ll be going to the GP. Thanks all for helping me get through this, the kindness of strangers Flowers

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Holdthedamndoor · 04/06/2019 06:35

I am an insecure person and just as I begin to feel secure in our relationship this happened and I just feel so sad.

Nothing happened. You had a bad stomach. It's nothing that would impact a relationship.

Honestly, I really though you were going to say you shit on him.

Honestly, me and my friends have far more disgusting stories. And we are still with those men.

I mean this kindly, but have you had any support for your feelings?

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TashieWoo · 04/06/2019 06:44

I’m on 50mg sertraline and had therapy years ago. Think anxiety is just something I am going to have to live with though.

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SimplySteveRedux · 04/06/2019 06:54

I promise you he won't have given it a second thought, shit happens.

OliviaBenson · 04/06/2019 07:11

I mean this kindly but you need to seek help with your anxiety. It's not something just to live with and it's not fair on your partner.

NameChangeNugget · 04/06/2019 07:29

Sorry to derail the thread but, what was the original “snapped and farted” thread?

I hear it mentioned a lot on here.

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TashieWoo · 04/06/2019 07:48

I think it’s in classics, or do a search. Nothing to do with this.

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