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Gave him an out. Didn't take it

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Persiaclementine · 31/05/2019 10:55

So guy I've met from local club a few weeks ago seems to be pulling away. I gave him a free out but he wouldn't accept it. What do I do?

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hellsbellsmelons · 31/05/2019 10:59

It depends what you mean really.
If he's pulling away and you don't want that then just end it.
Find out why he didn't take the out and why he is pulling away.
But this is waaaay too much drama for a few weeks.
Just end it!

PhannyPharts · 31/05/2019 11:24

I'd get on with my life and forget him. If he wants you he will make the effort

marvellousnightforamooncup · 31/05/2019 11:33

Why is it up to him? You have control over this relationship too and if he's not good enough you can end it.

ZestyMaximus · 31/05/2019 11:45

If you're not getting what you want, end things.

PlinkPlink · 31/05/2019 11:47

Meh.

It's only a few weeks. Let him make the effort.

Some people like to be the ones that end it.

fecketyfeck21 · 31/05/2019 11:56

ffs finish with him, tbh you sound like teens in school a couple of weeks is nothing.

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Persiaclementine · 31/05/2019 12:20

Thank you all for your advice, I think ill move on.

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