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My boyfriend of two years wants charge me to paint my SMALL BOX room.

113 replies

Inayahlewis · 28/05/2019 01:01

I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He spends half his time at my house eating and using everything for free, yet he wants to charge me £160 to paint a SMALL BOX ROOM in his day off. I would do it myself, but I had a very bad back injury and can not stand for long. I am a legal advisor and would never dream of charging him for work he needed doing. Am I wrong for thinking he is being unreasonable.

OP posts:
Miniloso · 28/05/2019 13:21

@StoneColdOld the only bullshit here is your comment.

resisterpersister · 28/05/2019 14:06

Well done OP!!

Onwards and upwards Flowers

Pugworld · 28/05/2019 14:12

This thread brings back memories. I dated a bricklayer for a couple of years. He spent most nights at my place, helping himself to food etc.

I needed a small garden wall built at the front of my place, I asked him if he'd do it. Obviously I'd have paid for all the materials. It would have taken one day to complete, if that. He wanted to charge me £80 labour which was just slightly less than the going rate at the time. I declined and paid someone else to do it.

There were many other examples of twattery from this individual, including trying to 'gift' me his clapped out car that he couldn't afford to fix, so he didn't have the hassle of scrapping it. Trust me, people like this never change.

BlueJag · 28/05/2019 14:21

@Inayahlewis I hope you are ok. It's really sad he'll expect you to share your home and utilities and he can't even do some decorating?
Better alone than with a selfish prick.

fedup21 · 28/05/2019 14:23

What a twat! What did he say when you ended it?

mslewis · 28/05/2019 16:02

@BlueJag exactly!

mslewis · 28/05/2019 16:07

@fedup21 i sent him a text message basically letting him know what a pnasty piece of work he is. I blocked him on everything and going to keep it moving x

Miniloso · 28/05/2019 16:35

Well done OP. What a twunt he was!!

HelenaDove · 28/05/2019 16:44

I like your style OP Zero tolerance.

Belenus · 28/05/2019 16:53

Name change fail there OP.

Musti · 28/05/2019 17:27

I'd have gotten him to paint then when he asked payment,I'd have presented him with a bill for lodgings, Bill's, food etc

Miniloso · 28/05/2019 18:31

Ha ha yes, or here’s a bill for £500 for food & drinks, so you owe me £340, thanks.

KeepCoolCalmAndCollected · 28/05/2019 20:57

This level of tightness and greediness is highly unattractive.
I would have to bin him off.

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