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[jagerbombs]

I had an amazing relationship with my other half before the arrival of our first DS.
But since the birth the child our relationship has faltered. Our attention has switched to DS and naturally we have found giving less and less attention to each other. The romance has slowly fizzled down over the last 18 months.

I am worried he will cheat on me.

How many of you fellow wives have been cheated on during pregnancy or within the first 12 months of giving birth? Have your partners gone off you during this time?? Has your relationships suffered or faltered when this time should be such a special time. I would love to hear your thoughts???

Have you spoken to him about how you feel?

17 year relationship, 6 year marriage. All was good until I went back to work when the baby was 8 months old and I expected him to step up and do half the domestic chores as we were both back working full time.

Before the year was out, he was fucking his coworker. I was a bad wife as I didn't give him the attention he deserved His other excuse was that he thought I hated him and that the marriage was over. Cheers mate for telling me, didn't stop him trying to get his end away right up until I caught him red handed. Now I do hate him and for me the marriage is over.