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Ghosted!

64 replies

Minglewhilstsingle · 24/05/2019 18:04

Why are people such arseholes?

I had been seeing a guy for the last 5 months, a couple of times a week, messaged nearly every day etc and now I've been ghosted for 8 days!! I've contacted him during this time (once) & nothing back.
I can see he is online on FB often etc.

The last time I saw him things seemed fine.

Just makes you feel really shitty! Could at least have the decency to say if you don't want to see someone anymore, instead of ghosting & leaving then wondering.

Just ranting really.

OP posts:
NutRoastNancy · 06/06/2019 18:42

Block him and move on!

SouthernComforts · 06/06/2019 18:47

So predictable! Tell him and his soggy dick to sling it.

NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 06/06/2019 18:47

Is for bloody real? Block him now

HowDidItEndUpLikeThis · 06/06/2019 18:48

Ha ha ha, what a loser! Do not dignify him with a response!

You’re the prize & he lost.

LuluBellaBlue · 06/06/2019 18:51

Haha don’t block him - that would give him satisfaction..... but definitely don’t reply!!!

See if he tries again with a longer message? I bet he does!

dodgeballchamp · 06/06/2019 19:09

Ghost him back! You can’t reply! But keep us updated ;)

Minglewhilstsingle · 06/06/2019 19:11

I'm not replying, I'm going to do exactly as Lulu said..

What an arse!!

Will keep you updated.

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Maybeitsjustmeor · 06/06/2019 19:14

Such a dick

waterrat · 06/06/2019 19:20

TO be honest I would actually reply and tell him the truth - that he is incredibly rude, really offended you and hurt your feelings and should be ashamed of himself. Why should he just walk away not knowing that?

Then I would ignore him. But I would have to say it.

GillBiggeloesHair · 06/06/2019 19:23

I'd reply and say 'Who is this?'

OurChristmasMiracle · 06/06/2019 19:31

I would read the message and leave it on read and not reply. That way he knows you’ve seen it and you haven’t replied.

Newadventure · 06/06/2019 19:45

Oh please just tell him to fuck off.
I'm annoyed on your behalf.
I've had this done to me a few times and once by a man 6 times over the course of two years Blush don't ask.. I have no idea what I was thinking he had a big dick
Its an awful feeling.
BUT now the power is back in your hands, use it wisely so that when you remember the prick you feel smug rather than like a mug (sorry, I didn't mean that last part to rhyme but it did so that's that).

UnicornDust9 · 07/06/2019 15:26

Predictable .. ignore it.

Your get another longer message within a week

UnicornDust9 · 07/06/2019 15:29

TO be honest I would actually reply and tell him the truth - that he is incredibly rude, really offended you and hurt your feelings and should be ashamed of himself. Why should he just walk away not knowing that*

Because he doesn’t care.. he won’t care that he hurt your feelings. It’s pointless, don’t give anyone the satisfaction that they can hurt you.

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