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Looking for quick advice - another cheating story!

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oreoxoreo · 21/05/2019 09:35

Sadly another cheating story ... found out my boyfriend of nearly 3 years on fabswingers, with positive recent reviews Sad
Of course he is going to get dumped. But we are off to holiday together with my DC (whom he's known for nearly 2 years) in 3 days for 9 days, a long drive abroad and accommodation booked and paid.

He doesn't know yet I know.
Do I carry on for holidays and dump him straight after?
Do I reveal and we still try and go on amicable terms?
Do I reveal and we cancel holiday? (It will be difficult to explain to DC who are looking forward)

What do I do?

OP posts:
PurpleGlitter1983 · 21/05/2019 18:12

She's got plenty proof! All she needs now is a flipping backbone.

AllHopeAndNoResults · 21/05/2019 20:09

Well I meant more proof as I’m he couldn’t wriggle out of the ‘i was hacked line’ you cant deny a physical meet. Obviously he is lying and the proof is the reviews etc but just to solidify.

daisyboocantoo · 21/05/2019 20:18

Where in Spain? There must be flights

adayatthebeach · 21/05/2019 20:34

Don’t go! Be an example for you DC. Disappointment is part of life your children need to experience. It will be a shite holiday for you and the Dc will see that.

Sammiches101 · 21/05/2019 20:48

OP, I know how you feel FlowersMy ex was found on there too, i dug a bit deeper and found the text's too. I kicked him out, blocked him and unblocked, rinse/ repeat and tried to move on.
It hurts a whole lot and still feels so raw but I'll get there, it's only been a few months.
I have no practical advice as my response had no ducks in a row or anything in a row, just pure rage/sadness etc. I know how tough it is and in the end, you will do what is right for you and your babies Flowers

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