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Am I overthinking?

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Bottleit4 · 13/05/2019 09:21

Newly dating someone (6 weeks or so), he compliments me a lot and often implies he finds me very attractive. I am blonde and it turns out I’m the only blonde girl he has ever dated, normally goes for brunettes. A pretty brunette walked past us yesterday and I saw him look at her briefly then start running his fingers through his hair, it looked like an uncsonscious expression of him fancying her Confused Am I overthinking here or do I have the right to be a bit miffed? Obviously I didn’t say anything but it was pretty clear

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Notjudesmum · 13/05/2019 09:25

You’re overthinking things. He’s obviously with you because he wants to be. Everyone ‘looks’ at other people, everyone finds other people attractive sometimes. It doesn’t me we act on it.

RiversDisguise · 13/05/2019 09:30

In my experience, some men are very very attracted to a particular hair colour, some men aren't fussed. My brother fancies hos wife rotten and she changes colour completely every 2 months or so!

The fact he is dating you shows he isn't just into brunettes. You are worrying about nothing.... unless he produces a Cleopatra wig for you during sexytimes I suppose.

Gigglinghysterically · 13/05/2019 09:31

Definitely overthinking. You don't have a right to feel miffed. Bloody hell, you are going to be a nightmare GF.

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