weekends. ever get tired of being the go getter organiser?

[coddychops]

every weekend morning it sme who says " come on turnt he tv on get dresssed tidy up lets go out"
or whatever
seems to be the saem in most relations hios
any one esle wnat dh to take control?

YUP - spot on - sounds like our house too !! DH is very good but is not a planner of anything !! Left to him we would all sit in front of the TV all day I think !

marina LOL at your line:

"Teeth were nearly stumps after a fortnight of husbandly loitering." and MI surely going to sainsburys is less work then taking the kids to the park therefore you get more points for that one?
Coddy - what happens if you have a sat off for e.g.?

our deal is I get up at about 7 7 30 with the wallops junior ( which I odn mind at all) ont eh basis that after I have breakfasted and everything I retire to my bath with hte times

So ont hat basis I haev done loads
when I come dwon they are watching tv - all of them - and I think he should do more as i did more on my shift. Ie they should be out side or playing a game
(swore I am not going to be a " me tiem you time parent")

katie
cant say dh i s lazy at all I just am probably "sarnt majorly" in the morning.

I wnat activity and not for the kids to watch tv
he does do a ot but dislike his slow start

oh if I am out he manages fine
am off to london ont he 25th
he will take them into town do the market
librarya nd so on

weellll... I don't think that's so bad then. I do know what you mean but if it's just the mornings then maybe just let it be?

oh yes! and it's not just the weekends...