Saw message on phone

[Lottie20198]

Been with DP for just under a year. No real concerns. Was messing around on his phone today and opened his “notes” on the iPhone. It was on a page where’d he’d written “we can message like this. Are you hungry? I’m hungry x”

I don’t know what to think. It’s dated from two weeks ago when we were on holiday. On that day he did actually go to dinner without me as I was so tired and was napping although I joined him afterwards for a drink.

Im not sure what to think. If it was dodgy why would he be communicating with someone via notes.

We both had WiFi and free data allowance there anyway which is why I feel suspicious that note was intended for me. Why wouldn’t he message normally? Sorry if I seem to be refusing to be believe this, it’s just it doesn’t resllly make sense to me

The note was for you.

Be prepared for the worst if you confront and admit your blatant lack of respect for him though with your snooping.

Why wouldn’t he message normally?
Because he'd found a new toy to play with!!!!

I am another one who thinks that this message was intended for you. It seems that your DP had simply discovered a new app and was trying to share it with you.

If you believe that you need to explore it further and feel that it is healthy for you to remain in this relationship could you bring up 'airdrop' in conversation with your partner? Your friend has mentioned this new message platform, sounds interesting, has he heard of it?

My DH and I airdrop stuff to each other whilst sitting on the sofa at home

Air drop him some photos you've taken of your holiday...it doesn't have to be notes.

You can turn it on in your settings/general/airdrop on an iPhone.