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My bfs side of the family does not come to visit our newborn baby.

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Funnymummy44 · 07/05/2019 12:55

I have a 2 and 3 weeks old baby and I still live at home with my parents. Ever since I’ve had the baby none of my bfs parents and siblings have never once come to visit my baby. I was in hospital for over a week and ever since I’ve come out of hospital I’ve made an effort to bring my nb to visit them( they also live 15/20 mins away) I find it very irritating because they all live together and spend most of the time at home together. Numerous of times they have been in a nearby area (literally 5 mins away) or have even travelled further but have not once stopped by to see my nb. This upsets me because I want my nb to have a relationship with his other family members but I do not want to feel like I’m forcing it or it’s one sided . Also it’s very hard as a new mum to take every thing baby needs there and back continuously and I feel like I don’t get to bond with my nb as much cause it's not in my own home. Their reasons for not coming is because they don’t want to come to my parents house because it’s not their own. I’ve made the decision to stop going their until I see efforts reciprocated. Am I in the wrong !

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Horsemenoftheaclopalypse · 07/05/2019 13:30

Does your BF live with you?

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