Think my marriage is over

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I cant talk to anyone in RL yet.
I feel so numb.

I just cant see how to come back from where we are. I've never been this sad.

What's happened?

What's happened?

Has it been a build up of events or has something just happened?

We just argue. All the time. He has become harsher I think. But i just cant do the disagreements anymore.

Do you think the marriage can be saved?

I dont know. How do you know? How do you know when to walk away?

Have you been able to talk about things once the arguments have passed and emotions are calmer?

What do you argue about?

Feels like we argue about everything. Small things usually but its just exhausting. I feel like I spend my life rehashing conversations because my husband us very pedantic and we end up with a massive conversation about what precisely was said and when. We both get defensive.

We have a baby and I just cannot let him grow up with rowing parents. I did and it was fucking awful.

My husband and I do those "arguments" - minor miscommunication and then somehow it gets to "no but I said, and what I meant was..." "But you said X so I said..."
No advice really but we have phases of it being far worse than others, it's been better for a while but God yes, so exhausting. So I understand.