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Lack of sex and periods Aibu

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Littleteacup1 · 28/04/2019 08:15

I’ve had a constant period for the last 7months (I am having hospital and doctor help for it I have endometriosis) the problem is he won’t have sex with me when I’m on or do anything says it feels so different. The problem is I’m so horny I’ve been having to orgasm nearly everyday myself. I’ve given my partner a few below jobs to try help get him in the mood. But I guess I would be unreasonable to try and make him want it with me when I’m on my period. Guys in the past never had an issue with it.

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FuriousVexation · 28/04/2019 08:34

There's lots of men who are turned waaaaay the fuck off by periods. Is he of a different race to previous partners? IME most white guys don't give a shit but most Asian and Black guys realllllly don't like it.

If you think about it from a biological standpoint, the aversion makes sense - you're at your least fertile, so the urge to procreate isn't there.

If it's the sensation that bothers, him, would using something like the Beppy sponge tampon be a possibility? I find them very comfortable for both of us and it just feels the same as sex at any time of the month. PM me if you want detailed experience!

Hope your endo is sorted soon, it's the worst.

Fonduefrolics · 28/04/2019 09:02

Not all men like period sex. Not all women do either. It’s too messy for me. Like you I’ve endo too.

But after a shower and a tampon there’s no reason why he couldn’t help you out with the manual stimulation you’re doing. Kissing, touching etc does he do that?

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