NC for this as I don't want it linked to my usual posts as it'll be too embarrassing/easy to recognise me.
Over the last month there's been 2 incidences where I'm pretty sure I've been asleep only to suddenly hear what sounds like DH masturbating. Fair enough. Only it's been right next to me in bed and I really don't appreciate that. Both times I don't know if he actually was, but I know he's had the tablet open. No internet history for the time of night so he's either deleted it or it's been incognito. He may have just been scratching his legs as they do get itchy a lot due to new hair growing in (he cycles a lot)
But what I'm worried about is it being a sign that he's not happy with our sex life any more. He's definitely got a higher libido than I do and we get and work around it as much as possible. I'm also pregnant and whereas last time I didn't want sex, this time in definitely more horny.
I just don't know what to think. He's never masturbated the 5 years we've been together. So I don't know what's happened if hes started now. Do I bring it up to him? Or does it sound like paranoia?