I think my husband is having an affair. Not sure were he is finding the time. He goes to work during the day then home. Doesn't socialise. Last week I found viagra in his wallet, wallet hidden inside work coat, and hung inside the wardrobe. Two tablets missing. He hasn't discussed buying these with me. I then convinced myself that he is having problems down below and doesnt want to talk to me about it? Then this week, I have found condoms in his gym bag. One in an old phone protector (so he had been keeping one in his phone proctector), then another 3 in the pocket of his gym bag. So I called into boots and these come in a packet of 10, so 6 used. We havent used condoms in over 7 years. Then I read in a google feed that some men use condoms to masturbate with. I really dont know what to do. I l always trusted him to the moon and back. I am in complete shock.