My fiancé came home the other day and told me that my best friend had texted him asking him what he was up to? He thought it was odd but brushed it off and said that she probably meant to text someone else. Anyway, he replied ("Just heading home, why?") and she texted back saying she was bored … so it obviously wasn't meant for somebody else! I decided to leave it and saw her the next day, but she didn't mention anything and I didn't want to bring it up. I know she's had a relationship with a married man before so with that in the back of my mind, I really don't know what to think. Maybe it was totally innocent but it just seems odd. Doesn't help that she's always talking about men that want her & how she's sick of being single. She also talks to him about her love life and asks him why other girls are so nasty to her. Deep down, she's very insecure and has been through a lot of sh** which is why I've tolerated it, but to be honest, my patience is starting to wear thin. I dunno. AIBU?