He's left me very confused

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Hiya there , as you all seen before my ex text me saying he wasn't interested and didn't want an us and I accepted and just left as is and took all your advise.

Anyways I had our sons first birthday party on the 16th a few days after I posted about him saying that and he came with his mum and his brother and we co-parented for our child's sake to make it a good day for him. After that day we have been getting closer and closer , like he's been trying to text me a lot more and keeps messaging me out the blue a few days after not speaking that he misses our lo and to tell him that he loves him etc.

Anyways last Friday he went out with mates and asked to see lo as he's got a new job working away and only gets to see lo on a Saturday overnight. I agreed and he came over and was playing about with our son and then asked me to call him a taxi home which I did.

The taxi called to say it was outside and we walked him out and he kissed our son goodbye and then kissed my cheek and pulled me in and kissed me passionately on the lips. It all just happened out of the blue and so quickly I never even had the chance to say what you doing. He then says my taxi is there I need to go and that was it. He text me when he got in saying I just miss him so much when I don't get to see him. I never mentioned the kiss as I don't want it to ruin that we've just started getting along for lo.

But I'm left very confused and have mixed emotions. Is he confused ? Why'd you think he done it ??

Sorry I had to write and get it off my chest , been overthinking every night and it's messed with my head.

Why has it.

She asked for opinions I have a very honest non filtered responce. I adhered to the rules of mumsnet and didn't say what I actually first thought.

Attention seeking idiot. And why does that put shatners absolutely vaild non bullshit comments in the shade..... i sat here and eye rolled you myself with actual fucking eyes.

At least both your eyes and your sense of er vigorous self expression are getting a workout, eh.

I dunno. I go and do some work for a few hours and come back to such excitement.

I may change my user name to AbsolutelyValidNonBullshit now

At least your still supporting fake and dramatic threads on here....

Give you some purpose and meaning to life. I am entitled to my opinion. As are you. The mistake you made was just being abit of nasty tòin.

Stand and deliver...

Yes that's uncalled for, and quite abusive, warrior. No need for that.

Wtf?

Clearly a bitchy group of posters who know one another well!

I don't think the three of us have ever chatted before actually. I have seen single on a thread or two but harriet is definitely new to me.

Maybe we're just a bit straightforward and no nonsense, so we tend to agree on things. Cut to the quick, and no messing (not a lot anyway!)

Oh yes, that must be it

No one can accuse us of sitting on the fence that's for sure

Hmm....

Who knows, maybe you are all one person?!

Hmmm. I think one person would have a hard job remembering which of their profiles was male and female, had kids, didn't have kids, how they vote etc over years. Not sure how long you've been here tessie but eight years for me, although had two names prior to ShatnersWig (had to change first time because I got a flipping stalker).

A stalker?!

I'm definitely only one person and that person is not shatnerswig. Pretty sure accusations of sock puppetry are frowned on @tessiegirl

You need to change back Shatner. The new one's a bit like one of those long German words where you get half way through and then forget what comes next.

@tessiegirl Genuinely, yes.

The lovely harriet

HAHAHAHAHA. Taken from my best angle, too!!

I've read warriorprincess's last post a couple of times and I can't work out if it's a general rant or a specific one directed at me, and whose side I'm allegedly supporting if it is directed at me.

For clarity:
when I called you out, warrior, I thought you were being unnecessarily rude and nasty with your "pathetic", "disgusting" and the urine reference.
Which put Shatner's supposed "bitchiness" in the shade.
If you read my prior post on the thread, you would see I agree with the position that Shatner bringing up the OP's previous record of posting is relevant.
You do you. It ain't me being nasty.

Shatner, please return to your old name, you may have a great memory but I don't. I like seeing you on a thread, I don't want you to be Blahblahbullshit.

This is not a non-existant problem for the op. Jesus, how nasty.

Op, what you want to hear is he still wants you in the way you want him to want you. You aren't able to accept yet he doesn't.

You are convenient for an ego boost and in his mind possibly sex. That's it.

Go get some counselling to work through this. Your self esteem is on the floor and until you sort it out you are going to cling onto this guy who blatantly isn't worth the heafspace you are giving him.

Moving on isn't going to be easy but it is what you have to do.

The only person doing serious harm to the OP is the OP herself and this latest arsehole of hers. What about the harm all this is doing emotionally to the poor child in all of this?

Absolute Bs. You have no idea the impact of your words on someone else. If nothing else, at least admit that as truth.

Yes, it must be horrendously painful for you to read the same thing over again. I'd imagine it's far more painful living it. Low self esteem can make it very difficult to accept a breakup and move on. Tough love isn't the answer when someone has very little in reserve in the tank.

laughing you are missing the point. The OP doesnt want to hear anything but 'yes he loves you he will come back to you'

I am sure it is painful for her. But she is making no effort to move on. And if you think this is going to pass the child by when it gets older, you must be very naive.

The ops pain is of her own doing. On one of her last threads he made it clear it was done and she was still asking if people thought he meant it.

She needs to love in and stop being preoccupied with her ex. Except she doesnt want to. You cant help people like that.

If people want to post they will. But indont see anything wrong in telling people they are wasting their time.

@Eliant OK, just for you. How come you like seeing me on a thread when I am apparently "frequently rude and abrupt to others"? You're not my long-lost stalker are you????

@LaughingCow99 Where were you on one of the OP's previous identical threads where posters were being far, far harsher than I have been on this one? Not one person had a go at any of the harsh posters on that thread, they all agreed with them. And if such words are so potentially harmful, why has the OP come back yet again (three threads on the same day) to repeat the same tired situation? She refuses to accept reality. End of. People did nice words for months on other threads with no success. Why not try being blunt and truthful in the hope something may finally get through? But the OP on her previous threads only engaged if you gave her glimmers of hope about bloke and "there there" soothing words, which only gave her cause to continue her bizarre behaviour.